One thing people fail to realize is that every height of relationship is as a result of strong commitment and dedication. What you need is the relationship intelligence that deals with maintaining and sustaining your relationship. This is the intelligence that involves practically making your partner feel loved and cared for and executing it in your day to day activities. Take one-day at a time to see to the improvement of your relationship, the happiness of your partner.
You need to understand that communication is the heart of any relationship and if you are denying your partner the communication needed or refuse to give your relationship the time and attention that it deserves through communication, you are indirectly killing the relationship. Feelings die because partners fail to renew them. You can be in a relationship all alone if you have a strongv resentment, kindly have a heart to heart talk with him. The relationship needs affection, love, joy, peace, trust and oneness and it does not come automatically, you have to sow the seeds for it to grow.
When you see two good lovers holding hands and still in love for long years, it does not come on a platter of gold, they paid the price. If you desire such, make sure that you are willing to pay the price. Love might be cheap, but to have a successful relationship, there is a price to pay and you must be willing to pay the price.