Small misunderstanding with your husband, your pastor have heard it. I mean, some Christian married women have so forgotten their common sense, should we blame it on Buhari? Sincerely I don’t even know. Some women don’t have family secret again, their pastor knows everything in details about their marriage including their sex issues. See, I’m not giving disrespect to pastors, but believe me, whether pastor or not pastor; don’t wash your dirty linen in public.
It’s not all misunderstanding you rush to pastor. Does the pastor marry the man for you? I rate it immature for you to always have a third party to settle your marital issues. Why did you get married in the first place? If you both can’t resolve your differences most times without external influence, then your marriage is a mistake. Women are fond of this attitude of making pastors their memory card, they save everything about their marriage there.
Small quarrel, you call pastor to report your husband. Can you imagine? See, if I am called by God to become a pastor, there are issues married women will bring to me, I’ll just tell them to go and settle with their husband, that I have nothing to do. Be mature before getting married. It will save you a lot. Pastor will not continue being your savior. Work out your marriage.
In conclusion, therefore, my dear ones, as you have always obeyed [my suggestions], so now, not only [with the enthusiasm you would show] in my presence but much more because I am absent, work out (cultivate, carry out to the goal, and fully complete) your own salvation with reverence and awe and trembling (self-distrust, with serious caution, tenderness of conscience, watchfulness against temptation, timidly shrinking from whatever might offend God and discredit the name of Christ). Phil 2:12 (AMP version)